Inspire A Child Into the Wild
By Ted Nugent
My dad was a hunter when I was born in 1948. It was still a powerful, natural, common sense, American way of life back then. Dad really enjoyed his quiet, peaceful bowhunting time afield and made it a point to share it with his family. He had quit gun hunting by the time I was 10 because of a terrible firearm accident that almost killed him.
Some doofus had touched off a round from his Winchester M94, 30-30 levergun, while unloading it in the back seat of a ‘52 Ford coupe, and nearly took my dad’s head clean off. Another inch, and I would have been a single-parent kid. Mindless, idiotic NEGLIGENCE is still the only way to be injured or die from a gun “accident.” He stressed this to us, making it a point to clearly differentiate accidents from negligence. I thank him for that to this day.
But
it was the adventure of our “Up North” family treks each fall that fanned
the flames of my predatory and conservation spirit. The big woods of the
Growing
up along the wild ground of the River Rouge outside
It is interesting to note that my brothers and younger sister, though a part of every hunting trip and outing, showed no more than a passing interest in the sport. We all had grand times together, learning about family camp life and nature lessons. But they could, quite frankly, take it or leave it. Meanwhile, I breathed every breath for a plunge into the wild at every opportunity.
So what is the difference between one kid and another, when all experiences might be basically the same, that drives one to hunt but not the other? Many moms and dads across the country have asked me how to get their kids into hunting, and I can only tell them what my own experiences have shown.
My best hunting buddies are my own two sons, 22-year-old Toby and 9-year-old Rocco. They accompany me on many outings, and we have shared many a powerful moment together seeking game. But there was no formula that I adhered to. Rather, it was a deeply thought out process along the way in order to optimize the chances that they would pursue this outdoor lifestyle with me, and that has brought me so much enjoyment, excitement, happiness and gratification.
All life comes from beyond the pavement, and our call to stewardship of these precious life-giving renewable resources runs strong and deep. For if a father fails to bring these lessons of reality and elements of accountability into his family’s life, what good has he accomplished?
Most importantly, I did not push my children to hunt. I always made it available to them, even gently prodding and encouraging them to join me every time I went afield, but never to the point of force or pressure. I shared the thrills of each and every hunt in stories and photos, and made it a point to let them know every night at the dinner table, “you should have been there! It was really cool!”
Over the years, I tried to get them to join me on the easier maneuvers. Break them in gently. Comfortable temperatures and conditions were always more alluring than stormy, wet, cold and nasty mornings in the duck blind! But I did make it a point to let them experience the joys of ma nature’s wrath as well.
As my children grow up, they spend more and more time hunting with their dear old dad. Toby and I have a duck opener ritual that means the world to me. And Rocco and I sneak up the same ridge at daybreak every Sept. 15, opening day of squirrel season. I can’t really enjoy a hunt for more than a week if my clan is not with me. I feel unfulfilled and I get homesick for them.
Contrary to politically correct pap, bold, honest lessons in life’s cycle of reality will connect deeply with a young child. Be sure to read the wildlife reports from scientific publications and note relative observations when driving the highways. Watch the Discovery Channel nature specials together and never let fantasy or denial become acceptable. Show your love and passion for outdoor time, and it will be contagious. I see it all the time, not only with young boys, but equally with little girls too. Now that’s a thrill!
If your kid spends more than 30 minutes a day in front of the TV set, watching programs or playing zombie-inducing video games, you are asking for trouble. If you can’t remember the last Saturday you took the family to a wild place, early and long, you are asking for trouble. If you can’t talk with your kids because they have headphones glued to their ears, you are out of their loop, and may I dare say, a failing parent. If you don't have quality time discussing the little things in your lives together at the dinner table each night, you are missing out on one of the most powerful opportunities to connect.
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the fine state of
THERE IS NO MINIMUM AGE!
It
is a proven fact, that if a child does not hunt by the time he is 9 or 10, it is
unlikely that he or she ever will pursue an outdoor life. That is catastrophic.
Every year in
THERE IS NO GREATER RESPONSIBILITY THAN PARENTING! Period.
Immediately
after birth, there is an initial explosion of brain synapses. Synaptic
connections continue powerfully through adolescence, according to a recent study
from the
And according to this old dad, it never stops. The time to share the excitement of the wild with your kids is NOW!
The earlier, the better.
The most meaningful impact will be made in their first five years. My mind burns with graphic excitement, envisioning my family’s woodland walks, riverbank picnics, sunrise celebrations and wildlife encounters with bow and arrow or .22 rifle in hand. Be sure to make that extra effort to conduct those ever-so-valuable wild lessons out there beyond the pavement for the entire family as often as you can. Earmark special weekends. Pack a lunch and a camera. Go slow. Take it all in. Nature will do the rest.
Provide nature-oriented toys and learning materials. Share your enthusiasm for the wild. If you are going to rent videos, rent quality hunting and wildlife tapes and watch along, reviewing the statements and content for details and better understanding.
Other reports show how children who have had little or no meaningful touch with mom and or dad, are much more likely to lead a life of crime, substance abuse, unfulfilled sadness and often a horrible, tragic, early death. To know the remedy for this, yet fail to respond, is truly a tragedy.
The young mind you help guide to TRUE NORTH now, will be the warrior for the wild, his or her entire life. I’ll bet on it. And never let up. With simple, good parenting, fueled by good old-fashioned love and affection, you will develop the greatest hunting partner you could ever ask for. The wild needs the next generation, and the next generation needs the wild. Strong and free.
SO TAKE A YOUNGSTER INTO THE WILD AS SOON AND AS OFTEN AS YOU CAN. GET 'EM SHOOTING, EXPLORING AND EXCITED. NOW!